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Change from within

Big success comes from small and simple beginnings. Some people easily grow hopeless when they fail and don’t get what they wish for, or when they don’t become what they want to be. They want to achieve big thing easily and immediately, without working hard for it.

Everytime they see others becoming successful, they think that they are less of a person they are just because they can’t achieve what others can. That is the biggest mistake and sin one can do to himself. To not believe in one’s full potential, and give up without trying again.

Often, it is not fate that we have to fight against, and it’s not others that we need to compete with. Rather it is ourselves whom we have to examine and see through.

Don’t dwell with the negative thoughts Instead, ask yourself positive questions like Who am I? What do I love to do? What are the things I could do to change things for the better? What are the talents, qualities and skills that I possess that I can use to become successful?To win the battle, we have to start the fight  from within. Like what one of those who went through an opiate detox said, it was when he realized that the root of his addiction and problems are not the external factors, but his own personal issues. He went through life blaming things to his job, his parents, etc. etc. and looked for things which he can divert his anger into, which led him to the wrong path. But, he realized he was wrong. It was his insecurities that got the better of him.

By looking deep within himself and accepting his flaws he began to think that a person who truly loves himself would not do things to himself that are catastrophic. They key is to learn to love and accept oneself, no matter how imperfect. He is now striving to become the best that he can be with the help of his loved ones.

Posted on August 31, 2010
Category: Family Health and Wellness, Family Home and Living, Inspirational Stories

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